Brentai wrote:Wait, this forum has size and density? I think you're overestimating based on the amount of excitement one (1) new member produces.
As for me, I am the deluge. Why, my monologuing is worth at least an extra one (1) person!
If anything, I find friends wherever I go, and strive to leave sweet conversation in my wake!
Or ellipses. As you please...
Niku wrote:i think everyone who has a problem with people should just do what i did and vanish off the face of the forum-earth for like a year for no actual reason other than vague anxieties and by the time you come back you won't even remember who used to annoy you all the time
This is good advice in general. I itemise every grudge and never forget who has wronged me, and by knowing when to pull back, can still find ways to forgive even the insults (real or perceived) I've clung to most desperately. Life is short; I think the recording may be sadly(?) lost to time, but I once busted into a surprisingly decent rap that nevertheless featured my desire to do terrible things to the skull of John Ashcroft. (And I marketed myself as a Republican at the time!) Somehow, the people I care about keeping company with have either forgiven me these moments, or found some amusement in them.
And the rest, I do not really care to look after.